There are some ways to help children to be independent. First, the child should have a chance to see the world around him individually to understand that there are various people and competitions in their lives, and learn to find his right position in the society only by individual efforts. Second, it is impossible to ask a child not to depend on parents at once.The parents may give the child enough help and space to make him feel comfortable. A child needs help from their families. Because without any help, the child may lose his faith. Thirdly, parents can help their children make their own decisions, which can challenge his ability to deal with problems. A child should be praised when he is successful or encouraged when he fails.
To be independent is vital for the children, because no parents can go with their children for the whole life. Only an independent person can live and enjoy a full and meaningful life.
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Nowadays, more and more parents indulge their children too much, showing too much love to them. The parents get used to make an arrangement of everything for their children. As result, many adult children will not deal with things by themselves but depend on their parents strongly.
How should parents help children to be independent? On the one hand, parents should try to tell the children the importance of independence at an early age. If the children have no awareness early, how can we expect them to achieve independence later. On the other hand, let the children always have a try by themselves before asking for help. Let them know that independent thinking is an absolute necessity in their life.
Helping children towards independence will always be our businesses.
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(1)选A: People instinltively seek nature in different ways.
解析:问题是作者的profound belief,第一段的最后一句给出了答案,whether we know we are doing so or not(不管我们知道与否)相当于句中的instinctively(本能地).
(2)选D: Things that are purchased.
解析:文中第二段最后一句给出了答案,“odd new perceptions about what is best for children, that is to say, things that can be bought”,奇怪的新观念,什么对孩子最好,能买到的东西。
(3)选B: More access to the nature makes children less likely to fall ill.
解析:瑞典研究出现在文中的第四段第一句,在自然环境中玩耍的幼儿园小朋友比在运动场玩耍的小朋友少患病,身体也更健康。很明显,B选项最符合语意。